Retail Customers, Unexpected Chargebacks
Customers experience unexpected chargebacks after seemingly successful custom orders. This creates a frustrating situation for both the customer and the business, involving lost revenue and potential reputational damage due to the unexpected financial reversal. The process appears to have been confirmed and approved by the customer initially.
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“don't fulfill it, just cancel and move on, the $200 isn't worth the headache if they do a chargeback”
“In the EU, the customer has the right to request a refund within 14 days, and the refund must be processed without asking any questions.”
“shouldnt have to pay for their mistake, go back to the appraisal company directly and request they redo it at no charge. most will fix it without pushback since its clearly their error. if they push back escalate to your lender or realtor since they have more leverage with the company than you do individually”
“If just ask for my money back since they can’t be trusted to get data right.”
“Did you give them the right address? If so, what would their defense even be on not completing the appraisal correctly, for free ....!?”
“Sold a digital product with a clearly stated no-refund policy on the product page. A customer bought it, downloaded it, then asked for a refund a few hours later saying "they realized it wasn't what they needed." I declined per policy. They escalated to Gumroad support and cited EU consumer withdrawal rights, specifically that platforms need to capture explicit consent waiving the 14 day withdrawal right in exchange for immediate digital delivery. Gumroad reviewed it and refunded h”
“Because stores/retailers routinely have abysmal support (it is not uncommon to require multiple contacts totaling 1-4 hours to get something resolved) and submitting a dispute is comparatively simple. Last time I had an issue with Home Depot, I spent 2 hours sitting in chats without resolution (they missed 1 item from a delivery order). Chase immediately approved a partial charge back (I didn't even know immediate approval was a thing that existed but apparently it does)”
“Update: Contacted BoA department in charge of charge offs and collections and an escalation manager submitted a report to reverse the charge off. Will take 3-5 days to hear back on whether or not it'll be approved.”
“I'd verify the customer and payment details before shipping. better to lose one sales than risk a $3k chargeback”
“I'd pause fulfillment and verify the order manually before doing anything else. A low-risk score is useful, but it doesn't mean the transaction can't turn into a chargeback, especially when the quantity is way outside your normal buying pattern. I'd check whether the billing/shipping details make sense, whether the address matches the customer's info, whether the payment was actually captured, and contact the buyer to confirm the unusual quantity if you can. If it's legit”
“Recently sold two identical items, shipped and delivered promptly, Buyer then messages instantly demanding refund for whole order or leave a bad review. no replacement wanted because iv apparently sent the "wrong item", then sends a photo of a completely different item alongside one of our items. We don't sell make or send the item he claims we have, Etsy didn't care and allowed his one star feedback and are going to refund him stating customers are entitled to opinion on produ”
“It’s 10 business days after the reported fraudulent charge is posted to your account. Meaning not pending. So if you saw it pending, reported it as fraud, and it took 3 days for it to go from pending to posted, none of those days count. The 10 business day timer starts when the charge is listed as an actual posted transaction. If they fail to resolve the claim within the 10 business day, on business day 11 they must provide a credit while they continue their investigation. This is the legal requ”
“I take my own detailing jobs and also work with a car detailing platform called Panda Hub, with about half my jobs coming through the platform. Spot missing complaints happen occasionally, but actual chargebacks are pretty rare in my experience. The best protection is taking clear before-and-after photos, especially of existing scratches, stains, the trunk, wheels, and any areas the customer specifically mentioned. I also do a quick walkaround with the customer before leaving whenever possible.”
“[PayPal] ★ 1/5 (v10.0.1) — Used PayPal because it promises buyer protection. Had a vendor duplicate a charge, even the vendor agreed it was a duplicate. PayPal refused to refund it. Had to charge it back through my credit card, which had no problem reversing because, again, clearly a duplicate. During this entire process they had their ai chatbot sending me ai slop. Then it finally routed me to a human and they just regurgitated the ai slop. Run from PayPal, they’re a scam. Do not trust them”
“This is the worst customer service experience i’ve had in a while. They said the heated base was included in the package, then when I found video proof from my pet cameras they said I would still have to pay to return the item back to them. I disputed it through my credit card. submitted by /u/Bryatch [link] [comments]”
“Hey, I have the same problem for a smaller amount of money. Did your legal notice worked or they still won't answer?”
“https://preview.redd.it/fozl8roxpvmh1.png?width=1181&format=png&auto=webp&s=1c97b04d111c5171c6fbe76adbbbed2d0a9c309a I refunded a custom order where the buyer had not replied to my five messages asking them to send me their design... and the next day I was in payment reserve. Great. Thanks. Brilliant. Punished by Etsy for doing the right thing. submitted by /u/1CharlieMike [link] [comments]”
“I am an occasional Etsy buyer but haven’t used my account in almost a year. Last week, a hacker got into my account and charge almost $1000 to my credit card to a seller internationally. They immediately after for a refund and received it which converted the refund into an Etsy credit. I saw this a few hours after it happened and immediately contact Etsy. The hacker started making smaller purchases before Etsy locked the account down. The account is secure now but trying to communicate with Etsy”
“The buyer wants a refund because part of the item they ordered is the wrong color than what they requested. They say they won't still give the item as a gift because of this. They are demanding a refund and already left a negative review. They needed the gift for tomorrow so I can't remake and resend the item. Is it fair to ask them to return it before a refund is issued, or do I need to just issue the refund and let them keep it? submitted by /u/yorkshiregold [link] [c”
“customer got a suit altered and needed it by 8/8/26. they just called saying they never got any notification the order was ready even tho we do dont do any outbound calls for order completion that’s over 100 calls to make a day that’s impossible! we tell everyone to come in on printed pick up date on a slip + receipt they get at drop off. we only do calls for same day rushed orders since they pay an additional fee and most of them need to pick up ASAP. any other customer contact is if we have qu”
This seems to be the correct answer. Calling them in the AM. Thanks.
“Damn that really sucks, so I’d essentially just have to wait for the state limitation for it to fall off?”
“Guys any shopkeeper here? Or petrol pump owner? How you guys deal with the disputed payment... Suppose someone purchased something and the amount got leined or disputed then how you solve it... please answer ASAP submitted by /u/Ordinary_Jeweler_502 [link] [comments]”
“It's being treated as a retail purchase, so there is no contract. Just pay and we deliver. But they're not paying and the PIC has ghosted us.”
“My shop is for primarily large vintage furniture items. Sold a piece a few weeks ago for $700 and one this week for $1,800. Had to refund the $700 order as they declared the freight shipping would be too much. No issue there but what I noticed is that when I processed the refund it debited both my Etsy payment account AND my bank account. My payout that came thru this morning ended up only being $944.18 whilst my bank account is showing this for the same order? The payout should've been roug”
“Honestly, after 19 months and no response, I wouldn’t waste any more time sending reminders. I’d pass it to a US collection agency and preferably one that only charges if they recover the money. For a smaller invoice, that seems a lot easier than trying to deal with US small claims from another country. Full disclosure: I work for Oddcoll , which handles cross-border cases through local collection partners. It may be worth considering if you regularly deal with international B2B debt.”
“thanks. Question: I am getting some conflicting info online on this topic. I sold pokemon cards that I purchased 10 years ago. I have a good records of each card purchase and sale. All cards were a profit to different amounts. I have read that I cannot reduce the profit/taxable amount using the shipping labels or ebay fees. Other places indicate you can. Seems the confusion is around the term "Gross Receipts" and "Net Receipts". Some argue the ebay fees/shipping label are fir”
“Should show the email you’re replying to. Seems like it’s most likely a fake account phishing and scamming for “refund fees””
“If you don't supply the first and last digits to verify your purchase, you're not getting the refund. Up to you if you want it or not.”
“I was in great mood this month. My highest sales month since I started. Then, one of my less expensive item broke in transit despite being swathed in several layers of bubble wrap and surrounded by shredded cardboard, etc. The buyer sent a Help Request, I explained that they would be able to be refunded through Etsy's Purchase Protection program. That my message counted as my response, and that after 48 hours she could proceed. About four days later I checked with her and she hadn't been”
“Lol, won my case too. But good job on ur one, the $100 feels like $1000 when you get it back.”
“Ignoring that whole "to not accidentally get charged"-issue, there obviously was something they wanted access to, but was disappointed seeing, right? Or something they did see, copied, and then didn't needed the app to access again? So what is it that they're getting after they've subscribed? What in the app changes, or is sent out by email or some other notification? What actually happens here? Or could it be as simple as people sign up to get access to the full code, has”
“oof yeah that's a classic move, seen it plenty of times. she's 100% fishing for a post-purchase discount without saying it outright i'd just wait for her reply before doing anything, but when she finally admits there's nothing wrong with it i'd hit her with the restocking fee and make her eat the return shipping. she'll probably backpedal real quick when she realizes the discount gets eaten up by the return costs”
“This is why you must have signature on delivery required. Also never lead a customer into giving a possibility that it may have gotten stolen. If you’re certain it has been delivered you can ask them to go to their local police statement and file a statutory declaration of the events. If they’re lying 9 times out of 10 they will come up with an excuse such as they found it. If it’s a low cost item, ask them to simply send the item back unopened so you can easily put it back on the shelf to avoid”
“This buyer bought something from my shop in March and even left a good review days after receiving the item. Fast forward to today, he's claiming he didnt receive the item and I notice in the tracking it wasn't ever marked delievered. The last thing it says it Arrived at USPS Regional Origin Facility. The tracking no longer works. Should I refund the customer or should I contact Etsy? submitted by /u/dopama797 [link] [comments]”
We gave him a chance to make it right which he did not follow through on.
“How much effort they undertook doesn’t really matter. This is more about contracts than fairness. What is their stated cancellation policy?”
“Chargebacks shouldn’t be used if there’s simply a “change of plans”. The bigger concern is what the contract says for the venue payment. Are you even entitled to a refund? Sometimes there’s a non-refundable deposit to prevent people from simply reserving spaces only to change their mind if they find a better deal.”
“Ordered some items on Newegg and paid with Paze for the $10 cedit. Seller initiated a return (I never received the item. Apparently seller can't fulfill order and did a return instead of a cancelation). Does this mean I can do another order for $10 credit back? Or does this returned order count as one of the 10 orders per card you can do? Anyone else of similar experience and can provide data points? submitted by /u/aikiteresa [link] [comments]”
“Would have thought the EU would be at least on par with the US, where it’d be pretty trivial to get your money back. Still, good that your previous purchases worked out.”
“I get that. They had some glitch in their system that showed an outstanding bill. I'm not making excuses for them, I'm just saying that's what the delay was about.”
“It’s waste of time. We did that so many times, even with emails from customers saying they received their parcels. We won maybe 1 out of 10. Just use chargeback protection and make automate refund below certain value. Less stress and waste if time.”
“Shipping insurance policies over standard carrier liability can cover against theft after delivery/porch piracy. I'd compare policies, but it's worth a look if post-purchase loss is your main concern.”
“Chargebacks can create major headaches for merchants. In this case, it sounds like the delivery records and the customer's own emails could be valuable evidence for your response to the chargeback.”
“[Amazon Seller] ★ 1/5 (v9.13.0) — I was in AmazonSeller for about four years and then somehow stores for other countries were turned on in my account without me knowing therefore racking up charges that I did not have any accountability for. I never sold in these countries. I didn't want to sell in these countries. I never turned a button on to have access to these countries. I have no problem paying my fees for US sales. But when Amazon requested thousands of dollars from me as a profitable”