Parents Lost on Wake Windows and Nap Drops

“FTM to a 5.5 mo baby boy.. I feel I am in worst trenches than newborn. He has been napping only 25 mins at once with wake windows of 2-5-3 hours.. and it takes such effort to make him nap. He feeds 2.5-3 hours. He is always on his tummy and hates being on back. Recently became a clingy baby. Also started scooting all over the house on belly and licking chair, walls. Can’t feel anything on gums but sticking out tongue often and passing gas a lot also number of poops increased. We follow all cues”

“EBF baby, goes to childcare 9am-12pm (3hrs), for two consecutive days. He usually wakes at around 6:45-7am and won’t nap at childcare. I put him down for a nap once we get home but my concern is that i’m doing something wrong by him skipping his first nap (usually around 9:45-10:30am He seems happy at childcare and once cried once when i picked him up. but i’m feeling horribly guilty about his napping. The educators struggle to nap EBF babies this young. They tried to give him a bottle but it he”

“I’ve no idea what I’m doing wrong. I’ve tried what feels like quite literally everything now. You name it, I’ve tried it. Is it just a case of waiting it out?! Example - Last night we had a perfect bedtime, perfect put down into the cot… 45 mins later. Awake. Then awake again and again and again. Finally put him in my bed as he does tend to sleep a bit longer there. WIDE awake at 2am and wouldn’t go back down for another 1-1.5hr. He’s never done that before. Usually you can settle him and he’ll”

“For awhile we were sticking to the right wake window and daily naps but now at 3.5 months (15.5 weeks) my LO takes longer naps and has shorter wake windows most of the time. I try to wake her up at 2 hours if she naps that long but she cries and goes back to sleep until she's ready to wake up. So I just stopped waking her up. She eats fine, gains weight fine, otherwise pretty happy! She doesn't sleep well at night without me and pretty much only cosleeps otherwise I wouldn't get any”

“Please tell me how are we getting these babies to go to sleep around 7-8 PM? I spend 4+ hours every single night trying to get her down. Once she does, she sleeps through the night. We follow her windows and do the same routine every night. My life has been the 4 walls of our bedroom and I miss spending time with my husband during the evening and not being constantly needed😭. I love my daughter so much but I just want some life back and being able to eat dinner and watch a show with my husband.”

“My four month old takes 3-4 tries a night to successfully stay asleep in her bassinet for the night. Once it’s successful, we will get multi-hour stretches, so maybe I should just count myself lucky for that, but the sometimes 2 hour process of successfully getting her to sleep is not ideal especially since I’ll be returning to work soon. I’ve tried all the basics I think, our typical routine is nurse to sleep with the sound machine on brown noise and then transfer into her bassinet after 20-30”

“So I’ve been taking to other parents and apparently not everyone is struggling with sleep at 6 months 🥲. One mum told me she occasionally has to rescue crib naps or otherwise her baby only sleeps 30 min (girrllll, my baby wakes up as soon as she touches her crib). Other parents have told me they’re glad their baby is back to sleeping through the night because some days they were up 3 times (that’s a good night for me!), or telling me about how they just lay baby in crib and they drift off. Anyw”

“My baby used to wake up once during the night when he was born. I thought we won in a lottery. This gradually turned into waking up 3-4 times per night. I know it’s not THAT bad (quite normal, I guess) but I am exhausted. He doesn’t have problem falling back asleep or anything and wakes up only for feeding. This interrupted sleep is draining me. I feel such rage at my husband who peacefully sleeps next to me. I’m just so afraid of the 4 months sleep regression. In my country we have long materni”

“I'm so incredibly frustrated and I don't know what to do. My 10 month old is able to fall asleep on their own for bed time with no issues. However, without fail, he wakes up between 12am-130am every night. I have to soothe him back to sleep. But 10-30 minutes after I transfer him back to the crib he wakes back up even though he was dead asleep. I cannot keep doing this. Ive slept 30 minutes from 11pm to now almost 3am because I have to keep going in to soothe him. Ive changed the tempera”

“Night sleep is bad for almost 4 weeks now: false starts, hourly waking (6-7 wakings per night). And I thought it can’t be worse than that. But apparently it can. The day before yesterday the daysleep got really bad as well, only sleeping 20-40 mins. In the night she woke up 8 times. Then during the day it became really hard to make her sleep again. Yesterday I walked 20k steps so she can sleep twice 20min in the carrier. This night I needed 40 mins-1hour to put her back to sleep after each wakin”

“My baby is almost 4 months but was born at 35 weeks so he’s closer to 3 months. He’s exclusively breastfed during the day and takes bottles of pumped breastmilk at night. It’s been that way basically since he was born. During the day, his wake windows are about 1-1.5 hours and then he nurses and falls asleep on me for anywhere from 30 mins-1.5 hours. His typical nap times are somewhere around 10-11, 1-2, 4-5. He is tired and fussy again around 7, so when he was around 2.5 months old, we started”

“My daughter has kinda been all over the place with her sleep, and doesn’t have a strict schedule. Lately though, she’s only been going for 2 naps a day, sometimes 3. She wakes around 8 AM, and her nap is around 10 am which is usually only 30 mins - 1 hr (I try and place her in crib but she’s awake within 10 mins and smiling). I try and get her to nap around 1 pm or so for a bit but she screams and fights sleep, she wants to play. Or it’s another shit nap. So I play with her for a bit more then s”

“When my baby was 3 to even 4 months she was sleeping great. She began to only wake up once max twice a night and would down a bottle and go right back to sleep. She is now about to be 6 months and for about the past month and half she has been sleeping terribly. I know around this time they go through alot of growth and therefore sleep regression. But it is becoming exhausting. She is waking every 2 to maybe 3 hours if im lucky. I am a sahm so I am doing all the night shifts and haven't slep”

“When my baby was 3 to even 4 months she was sleeping great. She began to only wake up once max twice a night and would down a bottle and go right back to sleep. She is now about to be 6 months and for about the past month and half she has been sleeping terribly. I know around this time they go through alot of growth and therefore sleep regression. But it is becoming exhausting. She is waking every 2 to maybe 3 hours if im lucky. I am a sahm so I am doing all the night shifts and haven't slep”

“My baby is 5 months now and I am back to work My baby still waking up almost after 3 hours to feed. And i dont fall back to sleep easily sometimes it takes me 2 hours to fall sleep again and baby is up again Or will wake up crying needs soothing I am running on 2 to 3 hours stretch and my body my head is tired and i am struggling at work Sleep deprived Brain fog Even feels nauseous when i have to wake up from sleep My eyes are so tired working at computer I woke up 4 times last night in a span o”

“This is driving me and my wife nuts. Our 10 month old girl (b/g twins) was always a horrible sleeper, but she never did this. She started waking up at 3 am and not going to sleep till 5 or 6. She seems perfectly happy, just not sleepy. We tried shortening her daytime naps to 3.5 hour total across 2 nap, didnt work. Tried 3 hours, still the same, 2.5 hours, 2 hours - the same. Her wake window was 3 hour after her last nap, we increased it to 3.5, then 4, then 4,5, still nothing. She used to go to”

“Hi all, FTM here to a sweet 5mo girl, who has bever had decent sleep. I would say she usually wakes up at 6 but its more like 4/5. Her wake windows are usually 2.5/2.5/2/3 or 3.5 with 3 x 30 minute naps (cant make tgem longer even when i try). Her bedtime is usually around 7:30. Lately, getting her to fall asleep has been a nightmare where she screams and cries, despite yaving had the same consistent niggt routine, but the second her sleep sack goes in or she gets in the crib, she gets to scream”

“My second baby is 8.5 months old and has already dropped to one nap. It's very rare for him to have two naps now. He's up at 0700, naps at 1200 until about 1400, then goes to bed between 1830-1930. He hasn't gone through any noticeable "sleep regressions" and teething hasn't impacted sleep, either. He's an anomaly lol. My first-born was ROUGH. Does it matter? I know sleep is crucial for development. Baby bed-shares with me and wakes once or twice to nurse overnight”

“Since 16 weeks baby has falls starts every evening. Her bedtime and wake up time also changed during this period and I feel like soon we will transition from 5 naps to 4 naps. Are the false starts because of the sleep regression or because of nap changes? In the first week the false starts just started mildly. Her bedtime was 20:00 and I she woke up constantly every 30min-40min until 22:00. Then had a bigger sleep chunk and wakings every 1-1,5 hour. The second week this evolved into waking up ev”

“Hello everyone, my 5 month old daughter couldn't be more energetic really. She's hitting milestones early. She could turn at 2.5 months is almost crawling and just learned to sit on her own a few days ago. She's very happy about it but my god the sleep. It takes aaaages for her to fall asleep I sometimes spend an hour for a 40 minute nap just to get her to sleep. I feel like I'm missing all her tired signs until it's too late and she's overtired already. No idea how to ge”

“So baby goes to sleep around 7 we do bath time bottle then I put her down awake at 6:30 but drowsy and she sends herself to sleep then she has another bottle at 9/10ish then back to sleep in crib then wakes up at 1/2am and won’t go back down in crib she goes down but won’t stay aswell she just stirs and stirs and stirs. So then I have to co sleep with her not sure what to do anymore to get her to do a full night in the crib ? Any suggestions submitted by /u/Thin-Volume8900 [link] &#3”

“Our 6 month old daughter is at her best when she has 3 solid naps a day, but she hardly ever wants to have long naps, especially in the mornings and afternoons. She wakes up at 7am, has a couple good hours of playing / interacting with us, but when she needs a nap it’s usually a struggle to get her down, which I know is normal at this age. The problem is, she usually ends up sleeping for 20-25mins max and wakes up ready to go. If we try to get her to get more sleep (dark room, low noise, low sti”

“Hi All, my 6 month old son having a hard time napping during day, and seems to be overtired. And all I do is obsess over his sleep although I have a lot of help at home I am not able to rest well due to anxiety around his sleep. Can anybody help me with coping tips? submitted by /u/Important-Name-4358 [link] [comments]”

“I am writing this at 3.40am while my husband is trying to shush our 4 month old son to sleep for the 5th time. We aim for 7.30 as bedtime but realistically he does not fall asleep til 8pm and around then we transfer him to his cot, then he usually sleeps til 12am, sometimes even 1.30am, when he wakes up or starts making his “munching” sounds I feed him. He usually falls back asleep on the breast, we give him a shushing session and some rocking to make sure he gets into a deeper sleep and then he”

“I have a 15 week old baby girl. Her bed time has been around 10 pm but I have been trying to move it up to 7-8 pm. So instead of a last nap I start the bedtime routine. It’s not going well at all. She’s having trouble falling asleep, waking up after falling asleep before we even get near the bassinet, and if we do get her down into the bassinet she wakes up and it takes up to 4 tries to successfully get her down. And it ends up taking until 10 pm anyway. FYI- in the day she only contact naps but”

“Basically what the title says. I have a 3 month old who still only sleeps in 3 hour stretches so you bet I'll be going to bed at the same time as him. He usually doesn't really go down for the night until 9pm anyway so by then I'm happy to crash out. We've been trying to put him down earlier but it ends up just being a nap (i.e. he doesn't sleep for very long and is wide awake once up). I'm curious to hear about your experiences. Edit: I'm so exhausted I wrote before”

“Need some advice on what I should be doing to solve this issue. My 7mo old ball of cuteness would wake from 3-4:30am almost every night. I tried all the things. Recently I cut a nap. Now she’s just sleeping way long for naps im talking going for 30min to an hour to sleeping 2 hours if I let her. I cap naps at 90mins. She’s still waking up at night. I’ll feed her, check her diaper, try to soothe her back to sleep but she’s just wide awake. I don’t know what to do. submitted by /u/Hot-”

“trying to get my five month old on some sort of nap/feeding/sleep schedule (lol you know how that’s going) and everyone says that the best timing for babies to sleep at 7 AM to 7 PM so what time does your baby eat when falling asleep at 7PM? Should I have him eat at 6:30 PM and then fall asleep right after or eat at 6 PM? submitted by /u/pinkstink27 [link] [comments]”

“My 5 month old is fighting all day time/evening sleep. I’m a first time mom so I just need someone to tell me what’s normal. He sleeps pretty well at night. He used to take naps great as well, but ever since he turned 5 months, every time is a struggle. Bedtime is a struggle every single night. He fights sleep so hard. He’ll be rubbing his eyes, he’ll have a bottle, I’ll rock him, sing to him, I feel like I’ve tried it all. Any advise? I thought the 4 month regression was bad but this is ROUGH.”

“Our little one has been waking up 4/5 times a night and starting days really early for two months now (she struggles to nod off after 3.30/4am). She will be 5 months soon. I am so exhausted from not sleeping, moving a house and now also getting a flu. My whole body is aching, my head is pounding. I would give anything for a better night of sleep. Please tell me it gets better. submitted by /u/Pristine-Surprise919 [link] [comments]”

“Our LO is basically awake from 6pm-11pm each night because she won’t go down to sleep despite being fussy and clearly tired. Starting around 9pm we try to change diaper, feed, and rock to sleep. She falls asleep peacefully in our arms but as soon as we put her down she’s awake and crying and we have to pick her up. She basically immediately falls back asleep if held. This goes on and on until she finally will settle around 11pm. There’s sometimes an additional feed in there since she’s been up s”

“So my LO is 5.5 months old now. From 1-3 months he was a good sleeper at night. Only waking a couple of times. From 3 months has been terrible sometimes he is up every 30 minutes. They are getting better at self soothing but still is up every hour or so now. He will roll over and then wake up and crawl. Doesn't cry every time sometimes is just up and happy We understand that there sleep regression with skills learnt but they started crawling around 4 months old so we thought they'd get o”

“Hello everyone! I hope someone can help me a little with my currently 6 months old boy with his sleep. Important info: ❗️ he connects cicles on his own at night by holding his hand near his mouth ❗️ Schedule: he has been refusing the third nap so we’re currently on a 2 nap schedule with 3,5 hours wake windows. He wakes up at 7 a.m (used to at 6) but usually up at 5:20 am. If I’m lucky I give him some formula and he’s back asleep. Feeds only once during the night, has enough calories, eats purées”

“My son had been consistently going to bed around 10/11 but at around 5 months it got earlier and earlier and now it’s about 8 PM and he’s currently 6 and a half months. I’m not sure what’s normal and I am curious how other babies do bedtime submitted by /u/Hannaheadshark [link] [comments]”

“I am struggling! I have an almost 3 month old and baby sleeps pretty decently, only getting up to feed maybe once before morning time. Problem is I still wake up constantly at night to check on him in his bedside bassinet. And I cannot seem to fall asleep well afterwards. I still sleep better than third trimester pregnancy except once I’m awake in the middle of the night my husband’s breathing grates on my nerves so much. I don’t know why. No snoring, it’s not any louder than my baby’s breathing”

“My LO is 3 months and it's ridiculously hard to get her on a schedule. We have a good bedtime routine but the actual time she goes to sleep varies a lot. Most nights she fights sleep for hours and ends up going to bed at midnight, and then sleeps in the next day. But if she doesn't get enough sleep in the morning after these nights, she gets fussy and overtired. How old was your baby when you started to implement a bedtime? Followup question: if you still roomshare (my baby does), do you”

“Hey dads , hoping all is well with you and your family . So , i have a son (10 months old) , in the afternoon he is taken care by my parents whom usually let him sleep 2-3 hours and usually wake up around 5-6pm ish. We will try putting him to sleep again at 10pm after a bottle of milk (6 ounce) and he will start rolling around , climbing our reclined bodies on the bed for more than 1 hour before he fell asleep. May i know is this sleep regression as i noticed his 3rd teeth is coming out and do y”

“Hi guys! My baby will be four months in two weeks and we’re at a weird spot with her sleep. I started a sleep routine at five weeks. It’s a simple one! Feed, bath, lotion, PJs, feed(mainly comfort nursing bc she’s cold) while rocking and she’s out like a light in five minutes. Initially she began sleeping for six hour stretches. She’d wake once at night to eat and then knock back out but as of the past three weeks or so she will sleep for a five hour stretch between 7-1am and then be up every ho”

“FTM, EBF It has been really challenging getting my baby to sleep through the night. I suppose, at this age, even 6 hours would count as “sleeping through the night.” He used to sleep for about 5 hours at a stretch, but since entering his fourth month, it feels like he suddenly dislikes sleep! How do I help him sleep for 6 hours again? Our pediatrician told us today that nutritionally, he no longer needs a night feed. He suggested giving him his last feed around 11–12 pm and then the next feed at”

“My LO is 14 weeks and waking up 3-4 times a night, sometimes more and especially after 2 am. I am sticking to 1.5 hour wake windows and feeding him every 3 hours or so during the day. He falls asleep on his own within 5 minutes of being put down awake at night so that part's going well at least. And he naps about 4 hours during the day spread across 4 naps. I’ve tried shortening his naps to increase his sleep pressure but worry he will get overtired which will also negatively impact his slee”

“I am genuinely concerned about my sweet boy but my pediatrician says as long as he’s eating and having plenty of wet diapers he’s fine. He acts normal and happy otherwise! My 6 month old is taking so many naps! His wake windows are 1.5-2.5 hrs, he often takes 4-5 naps a day totaling 6ish+ hours during the day. His daycare comments on it often. He took a nap today for 3 hrs and 21 mins. He goes to sleep around 8pm and wakes up at 7am and surprisingly… sleeps amazingly at night. I often have to wa”

“Does anyone else’s baby randomly have a day where they sleep most of the day? My 3 (almost 4) month old baby girl has been sleeping almost all day. She has still eaten, and had wet and poopy diapers, no sign of illness of any kind, but just sleepy! And yes I know baby’s sleep a lot. So I know I probably sound crazy lol but she actually slept really well last night (9:45 pm to 6 am) so I’m surprised she is sleeping today as much as she is. Anyone else have experience with this around this age? &#”

“I have a 6mo, adorable little angel, achieving milestones early, gaining weight, seems chill and happy most of the time. Except when it comes to sleep. The best we could do was 3 wake ups a night for a short period at 4 months which collided with my worst stage of insomnia and I could not sleep even when my LO did. We sleep trained out of desperation (Ferber) at 5 months, but it did not help the night wakings at all. Best night: put to sleep at 8, wakes up at 11PM, 2AM, 5AM. Hardly ever happens”

“Recently I’ve been getting gray hairs from my 11 week old taking short naps and having false starts at night. For both he wakes after 40mins to 1hr. His wake window is usually 60-75 mins, and his day typically runs from 8:30a-8:30p. He’s also eating every 3 hrs during the day about 4-5oz (recently sometimes 6!). At night once he’s asleep he’ll routinely sleep til around 5am - but he’s up every 30-40 mins from 8:30-10:30 (sometimes as late as 11:45) prior to that. During naps I can put him in the”

“I have a 3 month old and the days are pretty easy but the nights are still really getting to me. She slept a 7 hour stretch once a 65 hour stretch maybe twice, but besides that night it's every 2-3 hours. I finally got her sound asleep at midnight. She was up at 2 am on the dot and it took until 2:40 to finishing nursing, feeding supplement bottle, changing and burping. I crawled back into bed and thought.. I'm so tired of this. I'm just so ready for my sleep back. Lack of sleep is b”

“She will be 4 months old in a week. Since 5 days she started to have false starts beside her usual wake ups. She usually wakes up at 2:30, at 4 and 6 (sometimes at 6 she is up for the day, sometimes she sleeps one more chunk until 7:30-8:00). Beside these 2-3 wake ups she started to have more (2-3) after she fell asleep. Her long stretch dissappeared completely. submitted by /u/DiscountVirtual9523 [link] [comments]”

“Our daughter is 2 weeks old & we are currently trying to figure out a sleep schedule so each parent gets uninterrupted sleep. Currently, I sleep uninterrupted in our bedroom from 9pm-2am. During this window, my husband stays up completely awake watching my daughter on the baby monitor while she sleeps in her crib in the room right next door. The key here is that he’s completely awake and alert the entire time while watching her, but she’s technically sleeping in a separate room by herself. T”

“My almost 7 month old was at a point where he was mostly sleeping through the night, but recently for the past week or so, he has been waking up every 2-3 hours. This has been severely affecting both my and my husband's sleep, and we desperately need help with trying to figure out how to get him to sleep longer. For example, last night we put him to sleep around 9pm (his usual bedtime). He then woke up at 11pm, 2am, and 5:30am. He then refused to go back to bed at 5:30am and was up since. Th”

“And I just can’t take it anymore. I don’t know what to do to fix this but my mental health is going down the toilet because of this. It’s 4am right now and he just slept and I had to get out of the room when he slept because I just needed some air. He sleeps in a side sleeper next to my bed. I thought weaning him off the night feed would help so now he only has water when he wakes up but it didn’t help. When he wakes up it starts with being playful he wants to get into the things in my side cart”

“I’m a tired mama and starting to feel like I’m going crazy and would like a reality check. Every time family comes over, my 5.5 month old’s sleep is absolutely awful that night. Normally, even on our worst nights, he’ll wake every 1.5-3 hours. On a good night he’ll do 4-6 hour stretches. But after family visits, he’ll wake every 30-60 minutes all night long. Day to day it’s usually just me and him at home, so the house is fairly quiet. But we still go out (shops, errands, cafes, walks) and he’s”

“Age: 4mo Weight: 13lbs Formula Fed 3oz every 2ish hours (except overnight) Avg 25oz a day Wake up: between 6-630am Bedtime: around 730 Wake windows: 1.5 Hours (every single one) Avg total daytime sleep: 3.5-4hrs My LO has been taking an average of six naps a day since 8 weeks old. At 8 weeks is when she started napping for 30 mins at a time. Now she will nap anywhere from 30-50 minutes and occasionally give us close to an hour or a little over. Still, she needs about 6 naps to make it until bedt”

“Hi guys, I have a 6 month old who until recently slept through the night, stellar sleeper, in her own crib, woke up only once a night once in a while, not everyday. Recently she started going through something that me and my husband thought was a growth spurt but I don’t know anymore. She wakes up multiple times a night crying, and won’t settle unless she goes on the boob even if for a minute. Dad tried taking her for nighttime wakes but she won’t settle at all, actually it escalates pretty quic”

“My daughter is six months and she is the sweetest and happiest girl during the day! But she turns into a monster at night. Everyone always comments on how lucky we are to have an easy baby and how they’ve never met a baby as calm and happy as her. And while I do agree that she’s very easy during the day, she is really destroying us at night. After we stopped swaddling at three months, we have not seen a goodnight. She wakes up every 30-45 minutes. And it takes hours to get her down to sleep. I a”

“My 5-month-old seems to alternate between really good stretches and suddenly much more frequent waking. I'm curious to hear how yours is doing if your LO is around the same age (5/6 months old). We'll have 3–4 nights where she only wakes twice and can sleep 5+ hours during the first half of the night. Then she'll suddenly go back to waking about every 3 hours for several nights. About a month ago, she also had 3 consecutive nights where she put herself to sleep in the crib from a ful”

“11.5 months old and my girl has been having a rough last couple of nights 😭 we’ve been cosleeping with her for a while but moved her crib into our room and she will nap perfectly fine in her crib and go down completely fine at night but she’s on this routine of waking up a few hours after going down and needing milk. We put her in our bed to feed her. Sometimes she does really good with sleeping in her crib the entire night, and I notice when she stays in our bed she will wake up multiple times”

“My baby is 21 months old. They used to be a good sleeper from 2mo to 6mo until they started teething. They starting waking up very frequency and that never stopped. They are 21mo now and still wake up almost every hour for "boobie". They eat well during the day and have a full dinner at night before sleeping. One nap around 1pm for 1 to 2 hrs depending upon how tired they are. But thats it. I cant figure it why they haven't started sleeping through the night as it is really exhaust”

“Losing our minds Our 3.5-month-old has been struggling with naps lately. Every nap is a significant fight. He’s a good eater and happy spitter. He sleeps for 7 hours a night, and his first three naps are fine, but the ones after that are always a major struggle. He is a happy baby when he is up and a great social smiler et etc etc. He screams to death when we try to put him down after his feed, gas, playtime, tummy time, and diaper routine, which takes an average of 60 to 90 minutes. You can tel”

“My LO is almost 4.5 months and recently started having big melt downs at the end of every wake window when it’s time to nap or go to bed for the night. LO had these same meltdowns from weeks 10-14 and they were finally going away but now they’re back… I watch wake windows and have tried extending and shortening them but it feels like no matter what I do my LO starts crying or screaming once they’re close to falling asleep. We contact nap during the day and my LO still has these meltdowns. I’ve t”

“My baby was such a good sleeper from 4 months to 6 months. Now it is torture every night. She only sleeps with us. Her crib is her enemy. She also used to be on a great nap schedule where she’d wake at 8 am then nap at 11 for about a half hour, then again at 2 for another half hour to an hour and then bed time at 7:30/8 and out for the night. In the past two weeks she still does her 11 & 2 nap but wants to sleep at 6:30-7 for maybe an hour and then wakes again around 8:30/9 and won’t sleep f”